27 Haziran 2012 Çarşamba

Attila at San Francisco Opera

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There are very few operas where the title role is written for a bass. You have the Russian Boris Godunov and Khovanschina but that's about all I can come up with, except for the 19th-century Italian operas Mefistofole by Boito and Attila by Verdi. The latter two roles have been owned for about the last 30 years by Samuel Ramey, who sang them in productions all over the world. Ramey's old now and his voice has a major wobble, but when he came out for a cameo as Pope Leo at the end of Act 1 of Attila this evening, he gave the San Francisco Opera/La Scala co-production a dose of superstar energy that was most welcome.



The direction by the Italian, Gabriele Lavia, was borderline awful like his miserable Don Giovanni with all the monster mirrors of last year, but it didn't really matter. The conducting by music director Nicola Luisotti was fun and thoroughly oom-pah-pah, and the principal singers were all good, though none of them conveyed the charisma of Ramey in his wobbly five-minute cameo. The best thing about the performance was the San Francisco Opera Chorus who sounded like one of the great musical ensembles of the world.

National Summer Learning Day

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On a typical cold Summer Solstice day in San Francisco, there were dozens of kids running around Civic Center Plaza having their faces painted...



...having fun with arts and crafts...



...and rolling around in plastic Giant Hamster Balls on the lawn.



The afternoon's activities were part of National Summer Learning Day, a program that started at Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore as an attempt to offer summer learning and fun to poor kids whose parents can't afford summer camps.



According to the national website:
"The National Summer Learning Association began as the National Center for Summer Learning at Johns Hopkins University--but the story really goes back to 1992, when Johns Hopkins’ student Matthew Boulay recruited his fellow undergraduates to provide tutoring and academic support to Baltimore City public schools students during the summer months. Boulay’s summer project grew into a successful summer program called Teach Baltimore that helped boost students’ reading scores."

"At the same time, mounting research documented "summer slide,” a cumulative loss of academic skills over the summer months that disproportionately affects low-income students, contributing to high drop-out rates and a persistent academic achievement gap between richer and poorer students. As a result, the need emerged for a national organization devoted to making summer learning available to all children, but especially those children trapped in poverty without access to high quality summer learning resources, such as lessons, summer camps, educational vacations, and other enrichment opportunities."


The fancier activities at Civic Center were provided by an outfit called Games2U, which even included a Laser Tag game that looked equal parts fun and disturbing.



Most of these kids live in the Western Addition and Bayview neighborhoods where real teenage gunplay is an unfortunate reality.

Dolores Park Trans Afternoon

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The typical foggy June gloom of San Francisco gave way to hints of a sunshine-filled Gay Pride weekend as the Trans March gathered at Dolores Park Friday afternoon.



Though there are too many speeches from the small stage, most of the crowd doesn't pay any attention to the speakers, but instead uses the occasion for impromptu socializing.



The photo above should probably be entitled The Fluidity of Gender.

Straight Pride Saturday

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The San Francisco Gay Pride Parade has gradually morphed over the years into a whole month of activities, including an added "celebration" day in Civic Center Plaza on Saturday prior to Sunday's parade.



The event includes free entertainment, corporate and nonprofit giveaways at booths, liquor sales, and an opportunity to wear outrageous costumes, get drunk in public, and ogle people in skimpy outfits.



In a trend that's reminiscent of the old, shuttered Gay Halloween event in the Castro District, more and more of the participants are young straight people from the suburbs out for a cheap good time in the city.



The mood at 3 in the afternoon was peaceful and ebullient...



...but it was easy to see how it could get nasty fast, with a lot of young people not knowing how to hold their liquor.



I asked the young women at the San Francisco Symphony booth to confirm my impression that there were more straight people than gay at this "Pride" event, and they said that was their impression too. "It wasn't what we were expecting at all," they said.



In a sense, Gay Pride has come full circle, if young straight people of every color have no problem being part of the party. Still, it's very strange.

Covered in Blood at the San Francisco Symphony

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Last week was devoted to Hungarians at the San Francisco Symphony with Liszt's First Piano Concerto and Bartok's one-act "semi-staged" 1911 opera, Duke Bluebeard's Castle, being performed.



The Symphony opened its current 100th season with Lang Lang performing the Liszt First Piano Concerto, so it seemed a little strange to be featuring it again so soon. However, pianist Jeremy Denk was an interesting alternative to Lang Lang's brasher style, and the often garish, bombastic concerto sounded delicate and beautiful in his hands. The performance was a nice surprise.



Never having heard Bartok's early opera before, partly because of an aversion to stories about men murdering women, I wasn't quite sure what to expect. The hour-long score for a large orchestra and two singers turned out to be extraordinary music, brilliantly played by the orchestra under Tilson Thomas (second from left above), and superbly sung by mezzo-soprano Michelle DeYoung (above center) as Bluebeard's inquisitive fourth wife Judith, and bass-baritone Alan Held (second from right above) as her possible serial killer new husband, Bluebeard.

According to Janos Gereben, the Hungarian libretto is brilliant while the English translation that was being projected was dreck, and I'll take his word for it, but allegorical or not, the story is a very creepy tale involving torture chambers, a dark, depressing castle with wet walls, lakes of tears from unhappy women, and so on. The semi-staging meant lots of mimed props and continuous projections on the turreted set, that could have been worse, but which featured a few unintentionally hilarious moments, such as the water-spackled castle walls starting to pulse as if we were in a Gatorade commercial.

It was a pleasure hearing such a rarity, though, especially since the performance made such a good case for the musical score. When the huge Davies Hall organ started booming along with the brass during the Fifth Door section where Judith sees the vastness of Bluebeard's (bloodstained) kingdom, it was utterly thrilling. And no, the previous wives turn out not to be dead, but are instead locked behind Door Number Seven and are zombies or memories or something symbolic. He still looked like a Violence Against Women Serial Killer to literal-minded me.

25 Haziran 2012 Pazartesi

What's in your iPad?

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I don't consider myself a material girl, and I didn't get into blogging for the free stuff, but I must admit, I was pretty excited to receive an iPad to test the upcoming Monsterology app (thanks, Nukotoys!).  Coincidentally, it arrived on my birthday, so it made a nice birthday present, and we are now the proud owners of an iPad (yes, two years after it first came out, but better late than never).  The kids wanted download a ton of apps, but I told them I wasn't flooding this iPad with all kinds of junk, so we've been very discriminating about what we download.  We've had the iPad for over a week now, and I just downloaded our 25th app last night!  Here's what we have so far:

(in no particular order)

1) World Atlas -- because we'll be doing a lot of traveling this summer and I want the kids to learn about the places we're visiting

2) Kindle -- so we don't have to keep fighting to use Alfie's Kindle

3) iBooks -- because the Kindle doesn't do colored or illustrated books

4) Storia -- because I want to be able to download Scholastic ebooks and help my kids' teachers earn free books for their classrooms

5) Newsstand -- so we can take tons of magazines on the plane with us, including our print subscriptions like Newsweek, Conde Nast Traveler and Self.

6) iMovie -- because The Pea loves making goofy movies with her friends.

7) Epicurious -- because I need all the help I can get to answer the age-old question, What's for Dinner?

8) Behr Color Smart -- because we're redecorating the kids' rooms and we don't want to buy $100 worth of paint testers

9) Amazon -- so we can spend even more money.

Social Media Apps --so I can stay connected, whether I'm on my phone, my laptop, my desktop, and now, my iPad.
10) Facebook
11) Instagram
12) Pinterest
13) Twitter

Disneyland apps -- because we're visiting the Happiest Place on Earth next month, and we want the happiness to begin a bit sooner and last a bit longer.
14) Disneyland Explorer
15) DL Dining

Games -- because, well, kids are kids, and I need some kind of incentive for them to practice their piano and make their beds properly.
16) The Jungle Book
17) American Girl Gymtastic
18) American Girl Secret Wardrobe
19) Temple Run
20) Plants vs. Zombies
21) Cut the Rope
22) LogosQuiz
23)Draw Something
24) Discovery Girls Cover Creator
25) Discovery Girls Embarrassing Moments

So what should our *next* 25 app downloads be? What's on *your* iPad?


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20-minute Corn Chowder

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There are some things I'm really good at planning -- vacations, kids' birthday parties, summer activities.  You can always count on me to come up with next summer's road trip through Germany, or a perfectly themed Super Mario Kart party, or the best places to take your child when you're in my neighborhood.

But there are other things that I suck at planning.  Laundry.  Playdates.  And dinner.  My inability to think ahead to dinnertime is one of the main reasons I started my What's for Dinner series of posts -- writing it out forces me to plan ahead.  But even then, I still find myself looking up from my laptop, realizing it's 6 o'clock and remembering that I have to make dinner.  This potato-corn chowder is something I whipped up last night instead of packing everyone in the van and heading to In-N-Out Burger.  When I make soup, it usually takes at least 40 minutes for the ingredients to cook and the flavors to blend, but this chowder only takes 20 minutes to reach a nice, creamy, simmered-for-hours consistency and flavor.  We add a dollop of sour cream and a sprinkling of cheese on top, and all thoughts of In-N-Out Burger fly from our minds after the first spoonful.

20-Minute Corn Chowder
2 cans of creamed corn
2 cups chicken broth
3  medium potatoes
1 red bell pepper
1 small onion
1 12-oz. pack of chicken apple sausage (4-5 medium sized sausages)
olive oil
salt and pepper to taste

1) Dump the creamed corn and chicken broth into a pot; bring to boil.
2) Microwave the potatoes on high for 12 minutes.
3) While the corn is boiling and potatoes are nuking, mince the onion and bell pepper, and chop the sausages.
4) Sautee the onion, bell pepper, sausages and olive oil in a pan.
5) Take the potatoes out of the microwave, chop them up and add them to the pan.
6) Add the sauteed mixture to the pot.  Spoon a bit of the soup into the pan to deglaze the pan, and return the soup to the pot.
7) Season with salt and pepper.  Simmer until it's time to eat!



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My style inspirations

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Yesterday I blogged about things I'm good at, and things I'm not good at.  Let me add another item to the "Not Good At" lists:  Fashion.  I'm not totally hopeless -- I have a good sense of my body type and what I can or can't wear, and I can tell when something fits and flatters me.  However, I am hopeless at putting outfits together.  I can spot a cute blouse, but I will have no idea what to pair it with.  I just don't have the flair for it, so I look to others for fashion inspiration.  Here are some places I find it:



Lucky Magazine
Reading Lucky makes me feel fashion forward and up-to-date on all the latest fashion trends.  Their outfits are just a tad more fashion forward than I'm comfortable wearing in my everyday life (I live in Palo Alto, not Manhattan), but they're lovely to look at, and they're always paired with accessories (jewelry, shoes, handbag, hat, sunglasses) so I can see the whole outfit.  Maybe if I keep subscribing, some of that fashion sense will rub off on me.

My favorite fashion retailers
I love leafing through the catalogs my favorite clothing stores:  Anthropologie (love their vintage chic), Lucky Jeans (love their boho charm), J Crew (love their elegant preppiness) and Garnet Hill (love their soft flowing style). I'm always guaranteed to find an ensemble I love, and best of all, I already know where to get everything. 

Bloggers
I don't actually follow a specific style or fashion blog (although I do love Polyvore); instead, I pay close attention to the outfits of bloggers whose sense of style I love, notably Jessica Ashley, Emily Hill, Lindsay Ferrier, and Sheila Bernus Dowd.  Whenever I see them in person, or see photos of them online, I always find myself saying "Cute Outfit!". They always look so put together in a way I could never achieve without professional help, or a lot of imitation (ladies, if you ever find me sneaking photos of you at blog events, now you know why). 

Pinterest
Cute outfits are appearing on Pinterest all the time!  I could spend hours browsing, liking and repinning fashion items to my own fashion board.   I love the fashion pins of Kelby Carr, and Type A Mom Conference's Conference Chic board is great, but even a quick browse through Pinterest's Women's Fashion category yields great results.

Alfie
Last but not least, I can always trust my husband to help me find something flattering to wear.  Alfie rescued me from a style rut when we first started dating in 1999 (sweatpants and men's button-down shirts to the office, what was I thinking??), and he continues to act as my fashion policeman to this day.  Alfie has definite opinions on what looks good, and he won't hesitate to let me know if something looks good -- or hideous -- on me.  Fortunately, I trust his judgement (he has been ogling women for over half a century, so he's certainly got the experience).


What are your favorite fashion, style and beauty resources?Leave a comment on this post, or join bloggers everywhere at BlogHer's Life Well Lived section -- and be sure to enter the Life Well Lived Moments Sweepstakes for a chance to win an iPod Touch! 




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Lunch at the American Girl Cafe

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Some women celebrate turning forty by taking a trip with the girlfriends -- to Mexico, Vegas, Atlantic City, somewhere they can run wild.  Some go to a a spa for some pampering.  Some throw a party.  As for me, I celebrated at the American Girl Cafe! 


Taking The Pea to lunch at the American Girl Cafe is something I've wanted to do ever since I found out there was such a place.  I've visited the American Girl Place in New York, Chicago and LA, and even took The Pea to the Chicago store, but we didn't have time to eat at the cafe; I've had the pleasure of having brunch at the New York location, but The Pea was not with me.  So when the opportunity arose to visit the Disneyland Resort last week, I was determined to make a side trip to the American Girl Place in LA for lunch with The Pea.  I used my 40th birthday as the excuse to splurge (lunch is $23 per person), but truthfully, even if I hadn't just turned forty, I would have convinced Alfie to let us eat there, because The Pea is already 11, and just like Disneyland, I wanted to do it while she was young enough and the magic of American Girl was still there.


The American Girl Cafe is located on the second floor of the American Girl Place in LA's The Grove Shopping Center.  The dining room is decorated in pink, black and white; it's pretty, fun, and whimsical; just walking in and knowing you're going to have lunch there makes you feel girly and special -- a bit too girly for 3Po and Jammy, who opted out of the meal ("There's no way I'm eating lunch at American Girl!!"), leaving just The Pea and I.  Men were definitely in the minority -- there were several families, and one father having lunch with his little girl (adorable!), but for the most part the place was filled with moms, aunts and grandmothers having lunch with their girls. 


The two lucky American Girl dolls chosen to accompany us were Marie-Grace and McKenna.  They were given their own doll booster chairs, and we were seated on the veranda.  It was fun to watch the shoppers wander around outside The Grove!



Our first course was mini cinnamon buns that melt in your mouth.  I managed to get a photo of one of them, but The Pea had already stuffed hers in her mouth. While munching on the rolls, we ordered our entrees from the menu (which also had a story about the inspiration behind American Girl Place -- a night on the town with a fancy dinner and show that Pleasant Rowland, founder of the American Girl Company, enjoyed with her mother).  By the way, the napkin holders are actually hair ties that The Pea got to take home. 


Our appetizer plate had veggies and ranch dip, fruit-and-cheese-kabobs, and pretzels with honey mustard dip.  We also ordered pink lemonade to drink throughout our meal.



 Our dishes arrived at a fast and furious pace (frankly, I would have preferred more time between courses to stretch out our time at the Cafe), but we kept ourselves amused between bites of food with the box of Conversation Starters on the table.  Each little slip of paper had a question we could ask each other, like What is your favorite book?, What would you bring to a dessert island?, or If you could have 100 pounds of anything except cash, what would you ask for?  (my answer was airline tickets).


For my main course, I chose a grilled vegetable sandwich with sweet potato fries.  It was sooo good!  I simply must learn how to make sweet potato fries at home.



The Pea had a grilled salmon fillet with roasted vegetables and potatoes.  I'm so glad she's past the usual chicken tenders/buttered pasta/burger kiddie fare!


 Dessert was chocolate mousse in a flowerpot (The Pea got to keep the daisy), a flower-shaped cake and a star-shaped cookie.  So pretty!


Our server asked if anyone was celebrating a birthday, and since technically this was my birthday celebration, she put a candle on my flower cake and sang Happy Birthday To You.  I had the best time with The Pea; it was the perfect end to the perfect meal, and the perfect end to the perfect trip!


Check out more photos of our fabulous meal at the American Girl Cafe on my Flickr American Girl Photo Set, and stay tuned for more posts about our time at the American Girl Place in LA!



Disclosure: Our trip to the American Girl Cafe was not sponsored in any way by American Girl or other company.


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From Hollywood, a Side Trip to Scotland

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I'm the kind of person who likes to plan every trip down to the last minute (bathroom breaks are scheduled every 2 hours), and when you have limited time and lots of opinions, sticking to a schedule usually works.  But sometimes the best experiences aren't planned; if you're willing to take the opportunity when it arises and go with the flow, you can end up having a great time.

For instance, last week we were driving through the streets of LA, on our way home from a great time at the Disneyland Resort.  It was around 1PM, and we were making our way to I-5 when we stopped at a light and Alfie spotted the Hollywood sign.   I realized we were just a stone's throw away from Grauman's Chinese Theater, so we decided to stop by and do a bit of the Hollywood tourist thing before we set off on the journey home.  We looked at the hand and foot prints outside the theater (the kids loved R2D2's and all the Star Wars cast's prints), had ice cream sundaes at Disney's Soda Fountain and Studio Store, and were on our way back to the van when we stumbled upon a promotional activity that Disney was holding for their upcoming movie, Brave. 


They had set up a Highland Games station in a small courtyard, and anyone could come up and try their hand at the Caber Toss, Sheaf Toss, Hammer Throw and Archery.  Of course they were sanitized/kiddified versions of the actual game -- I doubt if anyone but the strongest muscleheads would be able to toss a full-fledged caber -- but it looked like a lot of fun, so we decided to take a moment and try it out.





The hammer throw was basically a milk bottle tossing game.  The kids quickly realized that the best way to knock all the bottles off the barrel was to hit the barrel itself!



The sheaf toss was harder than it looked; the bale of hay kept falling off the pitchfork before the kids could toss it, but 3Po managed to hit the target and win a prize (a Merida wig!).



The archery was by far the most popular station.  Even grownups wanted to try it!  An archery expert was on hand to fit participants with bows and arrows and give them a crash course in archery.  Everyone had 3 attempts to hit the bullseye in order to win a prize (a Merida wig).  Merida must have been watching over us, because Jammy shot the bullseye on his third try, and Alfie did it twice!



Everyone who completed all four activities received their choice of a set of Brave postcards, or a Brave paper fan.  To add to the festivities, there were performances by a group of young Scottish Highland dancers, accompanied by a live bagpipe.  It was a fun way to spend a few hours and a great way to get everyone excited about the upcoming Brave movie (as if we aren't excited enough already!).



We had such a great time, we ended up staying till 4:30.  We had to drive through the night and got home at 11:00PM, but it was totally worth it.  The kids got to see a bit of Hollywood, the boys got a cute Disney pin to add to their collection, everyone got to shoot a bow and arrow, and Alfie even got a head of hair to wear to the Brave premiere.   Here's to spontaneity!




Check out more photos of our Hollywood/Scotland adventure on our Flickr page.


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